Man, it has been a hot minute since I last posted. We’ve just been doing our thing all summer, and now the kiddos are back in school and things have been getting…interesting.
RB just turned 13 (!!!) and seems to really be struggling with teenager-hood. We have had a resurgence of rage episodes and tantrums, and a whole lot of treating me like dirt because he is angry at his bio mom. But life goes on, and he has still come a long way from where he used to be.
Little S isn’t so little any more, she’s starting 3rd grade! She’s sassy, quick witted, and vacillates between a ton of fun and a holy terror.
A and A2 have both been getting closer to moving out. A2 actually went back and finished high school (woot!) and A just got a job at a bank. It’s cool to see how far they have both come.
In the midst of all this Life Happening, it appears that Life has just Happened. A2 just told us today that her little 10 year old half sister KL, was pulled into care. Even worse, she was pulled into care the night the investigator first showed up, which speaks to just how bad things were. We love KL, and we’ve had her over for weekends fairly often, so now I feel like we are a bit stuck.
I don’t think we can take her. Especially with how moody and angry RB has been, it feels like there is just too much going on to be able to balance everything. But I WANT to. I really love this kid, and since non related kinship placement is a thing we wouldn’t even have to go through the trouble of relicensing in the foster care system. But how could we? I don’t know that we could make it work. But how can we not? What happens to this kid who has been through so much if we don’t step up?
It really feels like an impossible situation. I’m praying about it a lot. I just wish I knew what the right thing to do was.